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trystan

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that just sounds really rude, Demyx {{hugs}}
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Hopefully you have other accommodations. One month's notice for something you've been planning on for 6 months is really shitty.
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Wow. I vanish and the place explodes in activity. I wonder if I should take a hint.

This darn thing still needs email alerts. Oh, and I updated the rules for the thread.
trystan

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This darn thing still needs email alerts.
i second email alerts!
another forum I'm on does have email notifs, but sometimes they don't work and i don't get any, and i kinda forget about the site for a while, and then when i post again, there's a few people wondering where trystan went. it's..... awkward if there's no email notifs.
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XXi second email alerts!
another forum I'm on does have email notifs, but sometimes they don't work and i don't get any, and i kinda forget about the site for a while, and then when i post again, there's a few people wondering where trystan went. it's..... awkward if there's no email notifs.


At least they wonder.

Ugh. Stayed up til four last night. Then got up at past eleven.

Oh, I found a very easy crochet spider pattern. Do you want? It's a free one on YouTube.
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Oh, and I updated the rules for the thread.


What? There's rules here?

* runs off to check*
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I'm starting to think the curry I've been eating lately is affecting my head. Of course it COULD all just be because my best friends only get online around 11 o'clock, and then I wind up going to bed after 2.
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How's everyone doing tonight? Because I'm doing incredibly shitty right now.
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I need some help. I need some fucking help.
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Nope


Me, I'm having an anxiety attack and hoping I don't have to start over from scratch with the ability to converse with people without being too scared to even look at them.
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So anyway my wife's ex has been working particularly hard to destroy her life lately up to and including flipping the abuse narrative, alienating as many of her friends as possible, and getting her banned from her favorite hobby, and I haven't really been able to do one single fucking thing except support my wife and silently rage about it, and no it has not escaped my attention that this whole deal started very, very close to the same time my wife transitioned, but anyway.
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*sends hugs!*
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*hugs all around*

Demyx, poisonous people will always cause much more drama than is necessary. Hopefully your wife will transcend the abuse and the both of you will come out better for it.
trystan

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hello. i moved house this past weekend! we moved across the state from one end of PA to the other O_o
we moved out on Thursday to head across the state, and then sold the old house friday at like 1, after a last minute hiccup with the warning that the buyer might walk at the last minute (yikes!) but we got that smoothed out after agreeing on a monetary amount. and then we bought the new one at like 5 friday. we had a transporter bring the cats to us! it's been a crazy week, that's for sure!
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*hugs all around*

Demyx, poisonous people will always cause much more drama than is necessary. Hopefully your wife will transcend the abuse and the both of you will come out better for it.

She's going to come out of it with a lot fewer friends, but with friends like those, what even is an enemy?
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hello. i moved house this past weekend! we moved across the state from one end of PA to the other O_o
we moved out on Thursday to head across the state, and then sold the old house friday at like 1, after a last minute hiccup with the warning that the buyer might walk at the last minute (yikes!) but we got that smoothed out after agreeing on a monetary amount. and then we bought the new one at like 5 friday. we had a transporter bring the cats to us! it's been a crazy week, that's for sure!


Are the cats still talking to you? And how does the new house compare to the old one?
trystan

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Are the cats still talking to you? And how does the new house compare to the old one?
LOL.... they are now. they're good at swarming at meal time, that's for sure.
it's configured differently, and there's a few less surfaces to display things, AND part of my plan for this house it to not have too many cluttered surfaces. we also have less space for storage, so if it's still in a box in a few months, I'll reassess the items in the boxes. we'll see how well that goes.
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@trystan
But aren't boxes where the baby pictures usually end up? LOL
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Spoiler: How I quit Dystopia Rising

Hey, everybody, at what was supposed to be the start of the October game, I'd just like to remind y'all that flipping the abuse narrative - aka, making themselves out to be the victim and painting the victim as the real abuser - is a Thing Abusers Do, especially the narcissistic kind. Did you know *redacted* is a real expert at it? I've been sitting by for weeks watching ** and ** cronies doing exactly this to my wife, to the point where she literally cannot play DR anymore (also, nice move getting the NCO^ before making the big accusations so she can't defend herself without violating the NCO, real *redacted* bitch move there) and it's been fucking agonizing. Anyway, congrats on your unwavering support of an abuser, peace out, fuck you all, and may you never return to live games.

^A LARP-specific no-contact order, such that the people involved can't even talk about each other or encourage other people to talk for them, never mind talking to each other. Technically I violated the NCO by naming my wife's abuser even though I wasn't named in the order, but what are they going to do, kick me out?


I may be extraordinarily petty, but after watching my wife suffer for weeks and not being able to do a fucking thing about it, the least I can do is slam the door on my way out.
trystan

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But aren't boxes where the baby pictures usually end up? LOL
well, if it's the baby pix, I'll just keep them in the box!

and @Demyx, wow, that sounded rough for your wife {{hugs both of you}}